In popular, the friend zone is a situation in which one member of a friendship wishes to enter into a r0mant!c or s*xual relationship, while the other does not. It is generally considered to be an undesirable or dreaded situation by the rejected person.
Nobody wants to go there when you have interest in a person, and that’s because once you’re put there, it’s difficult to escape from it- and that’s not counting the emotional pain and damage it comes with. Friend- zoning is done by both men and women, so it’s familiar to both genders, although it’s more pronounced with the latter. There are a variety of reasons why people do it (women on this case), but I’m only sharing the most common ones with you…
Below Are Two Common Reasons
1. Over- Familiarity
It’s absurd, but it happens to be one of the leading reasons why women put men in the friend zone. When a woman becomes too close and attached to you before you lay your intentions bare to her, it makes it a lot more difficult for her to want to date you because then, they would have known you so much, and probably observed something a little distasteful about your entire person or become so used to you that they won’t fancy you for a relationship.
Nothing wrong with becoming scarce now and then. This is not always correct, but it is mostly.
2. Been To Nice
I know it’s ridiculous that something as beautiful as niceness, which ordinarily, should make anyone want someone so badly would act as a deterrent instead, but it’s the truth too. Most women view men who are too nice as weak, and unable to stand against something; “buy me this”, they’ll buy, “give me that”, they’ll oblige. It makes women feel more powerful, and to be honest, as much as power is exciting, women want to be with a man who is more powerful than they are.
And these are pretty much the commonest reasons women throw men into the dreaded friend zone. Like I said before now, there are too many others, but if you break these two down, but they’re the summary of everything else you could put into perspective. Friend zoning is common thing between a boy girl relationship these days, and it will be important for you to understand where you stand in whatever relationship you are, so as not to regret it later, when you’ll hear “i’m sorry but its kinda late, i’m seeing someone now”.
